Monday, June 11, 2007

Zen and the Art of Dating

Lately (as past posts have said) I'm trying to approach my relationship and (perhaps) dating The Torch with a Zen-like quality. As I said it to the Wingwoman the other night:

It's like I've been trying to make a river go where I want it to go. So I push and pull and struggle and get exhausted.
Now (after a very enlightening discussion early Spring with Torch), I am letting the relationship just be what it is. Enjoying our time together, being calm and just being me.

1 comment:

African Kelli said...

ooh, to be zen in a relationship. I wish I could learn that! Good for you. :)